JACKSON PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR CONDUCTS CULT INVESTIGATIONS HUMAN TRAFFICKING

CULT INVESTIGATIONS HUMAN TRAFFICKING

Posted by Gladys on August 24, 2014 at 5:35 PM

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Cult Investigations & Human trafficking investigations really are often one and the same.  We use to see them separately because we were concentrating on cults being religious.Sometimes they are and those can be very deadly.  Here is a list of warning signs you should look for in a cult and we will be happy to assist you with a more complete picture once we are retained and working with you and your family to regain your loved one back to sanity and safety:

Cult Members are discouraged from association with members who leave the cult and or unsupportive family and friends.  Cult members are told to shun, disassociate with former members accusing those who left as being away from God, in sin, or negative .  

Cult leader demands and members stress absolute loyalty to the leader and to a lesser extent, key people.

Cult leader selects spys to hover over and infiltrate members, and former members.

Cult leader lets others do the "dirty work" but is directly influencing behind the scenes.

Cult leader especially targets members, families, and even former members who have assets.  Those assets could be land, money, possessions, influence, relationships to others who may possess the same.

Cult leaders control money, access and activities of all but the very close loyal subjects.

Cult leaders use front people to win new members by sending out those people who are affable and can mix in new communities with favor.  Men and women or young people are used to draw in the new members by paying constant attention to them.  One situation I have observed is the use of social networking and or texting to completely control the time and energy of someone who is being groomed for membership in the inner circle.  Additionally members of the opposite sex are encouaged to spend hours  a day and night on the phone or in person visiting targets causing confusion about the real motives.

Cult leaders are notorious for praising their targets with flattery at one moment then shooting them down and criticizing the next.  Members and targets alike are meant to feel unstable and not secure about their standing and acceptance in the group.

The goal is domination and subjugation and to force someone into compliance there is constant manipulation and emotional curve balls thrown at the targets.

THE LOVE BUG everyone is always saying  "I love youIsolation from family and old friends Fasting & Praying, Late night or all night spiritual activity after working all day.

Food Deprivation while the cult leader enjoys eating every day and night getting fatter while members are losing muscle mass and weight with nutriitional deficit.

No TV or Radio access only Christian music approved of by cult leader although he may watch TV and listen to the radio.

No conversations by phone, social media or online that the cult leader is not privy to and controlling.

Limited access to the public, cult members are kept away from the public in general unless they are doing ministry and then they are closely watched by the cult leader and other members.

Not allowed to visit outside the cult or close allies of the cult and are strongly rebuked for speaking or visiting with anyone outside of the inner circle or those who are being manipulated and groomed for membership.

Type of clothing is controlled sometimes plain or dull appearance is encouraged.

False doctrines are not disussed with outsiders so cult leader can hide this from new inductees, often cult leaders refuse to publicize statement of faith or beliefs.

Non Christian books are discouraged and some cult leaders only allow books they approve of that cater to their wrong doctrine and indoctrination. 

Cult members are told they are working for God and then they don't get paid so they have no way to have independence, get away, buy their own clothes or personal care products. They often are not allowed private use of cell phones and even their online presence is monitored.

Cult members are forced to depend upon the cult leader or his resources for all their needs including books, bible, paper, toliteries, clothing, food, communication.

Cult members are not allowed to own cell phones, laptops or other electronic devices as they must be shared with others as the cult leader sees fit.

Cult members are often not allowed to  freely marry someone of their choosing,and only marry inside the group with the cult leaders approval and confirmation from his god, which is often him.  I say him because most cults are lead by narcisstic egomaniac men who devalue, abuse and use women.

Cult members marriages are sometimes broke up, and cult members are reassigned to other spouses, to the cult leader himself or celibacy.

Cult members may experience years of celibacy because the cult leader has not found anyone suitable to marry his members resulting in a loss of family life for cult members.

Cult members children become part of the cult and they must answer to a variety of adults espcially the cult leader.

Cult leader claims he is above the accountability of the group and accountable to no one but God and often gets "messages" from God for cult members. Cult leaders claim they talk to "God" all the time and He talks back verbally.  They get weird messages, change in a moment's notice the direction because they heard from "God."

Cult leaders teach cult members that outsiders are the enemy and anyone who questions the cult is told that it is the devil in them or the devil and that they are in rebellion against God.

Cult leader does not tolerate anyone questioning his authority inside the cult and outside the cult, members are encouraged to question, stalk, bully and intimidate anyone outside the cult or those who leave the cult

For those who try leave the cult, the cult leader will use all forms of brainwashing techniques implemented by all the cult members, intimidation, shame, guilt, the love bug, continued contact by group members and or the leader and his cronies to regain control over the member who is trying to leave or who has left.

Gang Stalking of members is very widespread.  

People who are old, fragile or have money and assets are handled with the love bug and overwhelming force by the cult members who appear to be full of love for the intended target.  After the target is won over there will be increasing abuse of the target to insure control is maintained.  The target will be in a state of confusion and unable to defend him or herself as the money and assets are slowly drained and or turned over to the cult leader.

There are other areas of concern as well but I hope this helps someone.  If you need an investigation conducted please email us at   accurateinvest@bellsouth.net or call us at 601-480-3181

SPOUSE CHEATING WHAT TO DO

What To Do If You Expect Your Spouse Is Cheating

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Try not to panic. Don't talk to too many people about it. Do call a private investigator and quietly check. The investigator should know the right questions to ask to gather enough information about your spouse, and the signs of cheating to come up with a strategic plan to get to the truth. Avoid some PI's who don't probe a lot, offer a free consultation, and just want to get your money.

A good PI take the time to learn all he or she can before asking for a retainer. Then they should be able to investigate the matter over the course of a week or less and establish your spouses habits and if they are cheating. Of course there are times that spouses only cheat on business trips etc but then you would need to do cell phone forensics and or computer forensics to see if there has been phone and internet communication or viewing pornography.

Think about what you want to do with the evidence. Is the situation so far gone that you just want to use it for a divorce, or do you want to go to counseling and save your marriage. A good investigator will leave that up to you and not try to push you in either direction.

Make sure your investigator has video and pictures with date time stamp accounting for the time on surveillance. Expect them to review backgrounds of potential third parties. Also expect them to encourage you to get an attorney if there is a concern that the other party may be doing the same. The investigator should work within the scope of the law always because any information obtained illegally will be thrown out of court. That means no wire tapping, no listening devices of any kind and only recording according to your state laws on recording conversations, one party, two party, all parties. Also you can use a GPS if you are a part owner or registrant, if it is a company vehicle you cannot do that as you have no legal right and any information obtained will be thrown out in court. You can do cell or computer forensics if you are a joint user of the same, if not then you can ask your attorney to subpoena those devices for tests.
 

If you are concerned about whether a child of the marriage is yours or not there is a way to forensically test yourself and the child before you take legal action. Use our DNA mobile Testing Lab. The court will revisit that area themselves possibly but at least you will know where you stand in advance.

There is often a question of drug abuse or gambling and those are areas that can be examined as well as any habit which dramatically impacts the marital and family relationship if not controlled or worked on can be the basis for a strong position legally.

I have a list of things I go over with my clients to see if there is a suspicion of cheating. I also encourage my clients to be thinking about engaging an attorney. One of the observations I have made is that clients often go to an attorney before they have any real hard evidence and then there is no money left for an investigation and the client is left unprepared and often the best parent is out maneuvered by the other side's attorney and finds themselves asking what went wrong. Having a private investigator get to the truth is as critical as having legal representation. If an attorney does not want to deal with a private investigator and his or her findings run as fast as you can away from that attorney and find one who will embrace all the evidence from you and your PI and then appropriately use the evidence that is pertinent and relevant and work with your PI to target areas that the lawyer thinks will be most useful.

Realize your private investigator is going to work hard to get to the truth for you and your case. If you need help you can get in touch with me and I will help you find someone in your area.

GLADYS BRIERLEY ACCURATEINVEST@BELLSOUTH.NET 601-480-3181


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CRIMINAL DEFENSE

CRIMINAL DEFENSE

Posted by glad4jc on July 11, 2011 at 11:57 PM

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You have been arrested or are about to be arrested, what do you do?  Retain an attorney and a private investigator.  A good attorney will want your case to be investigated,express concern if your potential or current attorney does not seem motivated to use a private investigator.

I cannot tell you how many times I have talked to clients after they took a plea or were convicted and their attorney did not put on character witnesses, object reasonably to evidence or witnesses or fight for the client to have the best possible defense.  I know some good attorneys but unfortunately just like anyone else out there bad attorneys with or incompetent attorneys exist.    You are paying your attorney.  If you were paying a doctor and he was giving you prescriptions that were not working or treatment for an illness you didn't have would you keep paying him or her.  The same is true for attorneys, get a good one, interview them, ask them for references, ask them how long they have been practicing and what their success rate is in getting a good deal for pleas or getting their clients acquitted.  Don't use a generalist or someone whose speciality is in another field just because your aunty used him or her several times, you need an excellent criminal defense attorney.

Sometimes law firms will employ their own investigators, and if they specialize in criminal law they ought to be more than paralegals or secretaries, the person investigating your case should have experience investigating.

Often though you will need to hire your own Private Investigator.  Set up an interview, if the PI is not willing to meet personally with you and give you an hour of their time as a courtesy then look elsewhere.  Run from any PI who brags too much, who does not listen to your version of the situation and who is not willing to get out there and investigate, talking to all potential witnesses, and digging.  Make sure the PI is not buddies with the local sheriff or police who arrested you.   Be willing to pay your investigator because what they uncover will be invaluable to your attorney and may save your life, keep you out of jail or mitigate the damages.

A good PI should be able to give you references of cases he or she has worked on, even if they are not criminal cases, someone who can vouch for his honesty and diligence and also a professional reference of someone who has known him or her for a long time.  Don't just grab someone who has a shiny new office, car or web site.  Spend a little time on the phone with them and set up a meeting.  If a PI is not willing to prove himself or herself a little before talking money you are probably already in trouble.

Never assume because you are innocent, the case is a slam dunk, innocent people go to prison or jail every day.  Strange things happen, people get framed, law enforcement is trying to close a case due to public or political pressure, your circumstances look bad and the cops really believe you did it, and so on.  Get the best possible team together to make sure you get a legal and fair defense which is your right under the United States Constitution.

If you have already been convicted, all is not lost, but think carefully about your appeal.  Did your attorney do the very best he or she could do for you, and there are just some appellate points due to the other side or judicial decisions?  Fine if you believe in your attorney but in some cases it is time to get another attorney who has experience in appeals.  Also consider that in many jurisdictions the appellate court will NOT overturn lower court decisions without something really remarkable as they are conservative courts who support most lower court decisions.  

Once you have won your appeal review the above, you need a good attorney to handle a deal or a new trial and now more than ever you need a good Private Investigator to uncover things that were missed the first time around and also by now some witnesses may be more willing to talk, and more is known about what was covered up, or what the other side thinks they have on you.

The most important person in your defense is YOU. Trust your gut instincts, don't just trust everyone who promises it's going to be ok, verify and ask questions every step of the way, stay informed, but also let your PI do his or her job and find out the truth for you and your attorney.

PHONY CONSUMER COMPLAINT WEB SITE SCAMS

The Phony Consumer Report Beware of Extortionists

Posted by glad4jc on November 15, 2011 at 8:35 PM

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There are some so called consumer complaint web sites which are basically embezzlement sites.  They will tell you that you cannot pay to get erroneous or phony or retaliatory reports off their web site.  They tell you though you can pay an independent arbitrator some $2000  or more per report and agreements and negotiations can be made, but they NEVER take it off their site.

 What happens if the poster who complained is not a client, consumer or customer but a criminal who was investigated, or a bad pervert who was caught, or some competition wishing to retaliate.  I have not found one credible person to be on these complaints for the most part, except for the publicly known criminals which are later arrested and prosecuted.  Often times it is those very own criminals who post the horrendous lies about good business people and companies.  These sites are  nothing like REAL CONSUMER REPORTS which interviews both sides and presents a fair finding of their own volition not because someone is paying them advertising or not because they are getting kick backs..

The best way to evaluate a PI's credibility is the same way you would assess a medical doctor, lawyer or a good restaurant or any other professional or company.  Check out what the other clients or  consumers are saying on their web site, call references, give them a little business and see how they handle your confidentiality and do they behave in a compassionate professional manner.  Choose someone who cares about your needs and concerns and not only focused on money.  If they are not wiling to give you a complimentary phone or in person interview they probably are not going to give you any real feedback or interaction about your case.

Don't believe everything you read on the internet, and also trust your instincts.

VALENTINES DAY CHEATING & INFIDELITY

HOLIDAY CHEATING INFIDELITY GAMBLING SUBSTANCE ABUSE & CHILD ABUSE

Posted by glad4jc on December 7, 2011 at 12:20 AM

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People who are already struggling with substance abuse, those who tend to lose their patience and abuse their children, or people who are cheating or gambling tend to accelerate their behaviors at the holiday season.  
Stress at holidays in general brings out the worst in an already bad situation.  This is a good time to be checking phone records if you have legal access, checking online activity and conducting surveillance.  People tend to gamble more and misuse drugs and or alcohol.

At Accurate Investigations, LLC we keep your priorities in mind, we devise a strategy with you to accomplish your goals, reach your objectives and get to the truth.  Sometimes it is hard to believe that a spouse who you have been married to for many years has gone off the deep end in an illicit relationship, substance abuse, gambling or losing their temper with your children or at the very worse allowing a boyfriend or husband to molest your precious children.

Please give us a call and we will assist you during this holiday season.  Your distressful situation is our concern and we will do our best to get the evidence you need for court, or to work on a plan of therapy to repair your marriage.

Contact Gladys at accurateinvest@bellsouth.net or call 601-683-2094

CHILD CUSTODY

I am not a lawyer but I investigate a fair amount of child custody cases.  If I assess a situation where a potential client comes to me with false allegations, vindictiveness or no legitimate reason I can see or believe to limit the other parties access to children, I refuse the case.  I have counseled clients to work with the other party as much as possible on the issue of their children.  Children suffer so much when they cannot spend equal time or as much time as they need or want to with the both of their parents. 

Except in the case of abuse or active addiction, I see no reason why children should not have access to both parents.  Usually this comes down to power, control and money.  These have NO PLACE in the health and well being of children except that the children should understand both Mommy and Daddy have equal authority and that both will provide for them to the best of their ability.  It is so bad for children to know that one or the other parent has to "obey" the other parent in order to have access to their children.  Sure the court made the ruling but the children often don't understand this, they somehow know that the custodial parent could let them see the other more often if they wanted to. 

If parents only knew how in most cases with holding a child from another parent without serious case will damage their children for life, maybe they would care.  We have wounded, damaged people having children who use them as pawns to act out their own frustrations or anger from their own childhood.  I am for shared legal and physical custody and for parents to be forced to work together by the courts.  I am also for mediation where people have to work out their differences in counseling and only in rare situations have to fight in court for the safety or well being of their children.  As a private investigator I believe no judge should rip any child away from shared custody unless there is hard evidence of abuse or addiction.  Even  adulterers have rights to parent their children in as close as possible to the way they did when the family lived together.  I am passionate for children.  I grew up in an imperfect home where divorce was not an option and in spite of things I wished could have been different, my parents presented a united front to us six kids and that developed some really good ethics and habits in our lives.

Gladys Brierley

Accurate Investigations, LLC

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JACKSON PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR PREDATORS NEXT DOOR

I am writing this article to help parents everywhere become more alert about the predator next door. I am using that term to show that the predators that prey or want to prey on your children are almost always closer than you think.

If you have a chance do a google search on news about predators who have been arrested and convicted, or go to the library and get the audio version of Michael Reagan's book TWICE ADOPTED, check your zip code area for convicted sex offenders, just for openers.

I have seen the repercussions of child hood molestation up close and personal in our extended family. I also have worked undercover in sting operations where predators have exposed themselves as being from every walk of life, every race and all ages.

Preying on children has become so much easier for predators because of the internet and social networking sites such as myspace, facebook and other less known chat rooms where children are lured and filthy predators are lurking waiting to attack and devour their prey.

Parents are not paying attention and or realizing the danger their children are in online as well as in or near their own front door. Here is just one example of a person who was entrusted with such a powerful position which he then used to cover up and commit his felonies of child molestation and allegedly murder.

http://coldnomore.wordpress.com/2011/11/06/three-men-who-let-a-murderer-get-away/#more-39

I am listening to the news right now on Jerry Sandusky former coach whose charitable organization was a cover for his molestation of children. NOT, any man who wants your kids to sleep over, be on guard. These men [and occasionally woman] groom and target underprivileged and or vulnerable families or children. This is a planned out strategy.

Let's look at who predators really are inside. While on the outside they come in all sizes and shapes, races, ages and professions or backgrounds there are some key elements inside most predators that they have in common.

They are show special interest in vulnerable children, they are narcissistic, it's all about them, they believe that laws should be changed so they can legally have sexual access to younger and younger children, they believe they can outfox the legal system, fool everyone, they often are without any healthy self esteem and seek to have power over children to seek to boost their self worth, they are often seeking power in general and believe that power will give them more access to children to gratify their perverted lusts, they are usually trying to position themselves as heroes, friends of families & children, spiritual experts, politicians, teachers, coaches, or seizing any opportunity that gives them more access to children, they rarely or ever feel remorse for what they are doing to hurt children, they only regret getting caught and losing their freedom or access to children, they often cannot have any real meaningful adult relationships romantic or platonic because they are living a double life, and they do not know how to relate to other adults in a positive, productive way, they use, manipulate and tolerate people to get their agenda of preying on children met, they often have creative, or positive personality traits that endear them to children and adults, they use clever conversation to frighten, entrap or intimidate their victims, they often appear to have outward concerns about the law, their community, or the well being of children so much so that parents and others see them as child advocates, they may contribute to the financial well being of needy families or communities to further their so called credibility, they often will be involved in any job, position, employment, or organization where they can show case their "talents" to win approval so they have more access to children. There are many more common areas.

What do we do with this? It sounds like every teacher, pastor, coach, neighbor and boy scout leader is suspect! Well yes and no. We need to closely examine any child advocate or person who will have access to our children but if we look beyond the exter 1/2or and watch and reserve our children's involvement paying attention we can hopefully discern whether another adult is safe for our children. Another thing we can do is to educate our children early on. One of the things I did with my children was to tell them never to go to "crime scene number two." They still remember that today. Another thing I did with our youngest child was role playing. I started role playing when she was 3 1/2 years old. I was the stranger or known person who had the missing dog, needed help or was telling my child we were in a car accident and she needed to go with that person. We developed a secret password which we used almost on a daily basis whenever we used public restrooms, or in role playing. She knew that password would be used by a trusted adult if we could not reach her. We only shared that password with a couple of people. In addition we had trusted friends and family that she knew were always safe even without the password. We also educated our child as she grew up by letting her know who the bad predators were in our zip code, we showed her their faces and said if anyone looking like this comes near you ever let some trusted adult know. We allowed her to watch TV programs on runaways who were preyed upon or other missing children. We rarely let her sleep over anyone's house unless we checked out the parents and related family. She was not allowed to sleep over friends houses that had "older brothers, step-fathers and uncles" in the home or around the family unless we had spent time evaluating that situation at length. We always keep the doors of communication open, asking questions, giving her the impression that we would never be mad at her if something went wrong, etc.

Even so we cannot always know what might happen even with the most trusted friends or families. Fortunately for us our youngest daughter has been safe. But one friend who is somewhat unusually innocent in this arena allowed our daughter to spend nights in an adjacent room on a trip with her male relative and his grand daughter who my daughter helped take care of. As much as I have trained my daughter, and as much as she knew this was a huge violation of our family boundaries, she chose not to tell me until she returned from the trip, sometime later. As you can imagine, I was horrified. I know my friend believed there was simply nothing wrong with this as the other little girl had often spent time with her grand father in this way, and I believe truly he is NOT a child predator. However the violation of the boundaries that our family had set for so many years was huge. I was so troubled and asked myself why I had not anticipated this ahead of time. I realize as you do that we cannot anticipate all the what if's that may enter our child's life. Fortunately everything is ok but it was a reality check.

This situation has made us more diligent and cautious. More to come.

Sobriety The Struggle to Stay Sober

What is happening to our world? We have celebrities going in and out of rehab like yo yos and thousands of homeless addicts and alcoholics with many more people struggling to get or stay sober in homes, jobs, shelters, hospitals and jails. We should be looking at our countries policies to support illegal drug trafficking, corrupt politicians, law enforcement, doctors and pharmacists for starters and lets not forget insurance companies. Lets start with insurance companies and the insured. Surely they have ways to track when someone is abusing prescription drugs and yet they rarely do anything about it, why because of all the money they make. People have to use all kinds of medical services to get the ultimate drug or drugs of choice from their local pharmacists. They could not continue if these agencies, companies and medical providers joined forces to stop medical corruption.

Genuinely ill people have to wait in line behind those who are using the system to get pain medicine for example. Service providers are more interested in what is easy service and the money they can make on the backs of the insured irregardless of whether they are really helping cure anyone. Doctors need to rethink the Hypocratic oath which says, "First Do No Harm". Continuing to feed people drugs because you can make alot of money on it should be considered illegal and those doctors should be investigated. There are genuine situations where people have real pain and there is no cure for it, in those cases doctors should make them as comfortable as possible. However I remember one doctor, a multi millionaire on TV advertising how people needed oxycotin, on local TV and how he felt so much compassion for them, yet his own ex wife was driven to despair because of prescription drug addiction while they were married and in business together. He did nothing to help her, got divorced from her, fought her for the kids and treated her publicly like she was a piece of crap. He preyed on other woman who were later addicted and dependent on him while he played around with their lives and their families. Shame on us for allowing people like this to continue to practice and not only practice but to flourish.

I went to this shyster myself before I found out how corrupt he was, all he wanted to do was push drugs at me, and I am not one for taking drugs to begin with let alone getting addicted to them. I had diagnosises from other well respected doctors who actually practiced medicine and he did not address those diagnosises. I got away from him before he could do any real damage to me but I then watched as his practices and unethical behavior helped to destroy someone I love very much and he got away with it because of his millions. I heard story after story of his corrupt practices and the financial losses of people who got dependent on his services. He even bailed a patient out of jail to protect his own interests took over a whole family deluded them and helped to break up a marriage just to keep himself protected due to this inappropriate involvement with that patient.

What about the pharmacists, they are making their living dispensing drugs and some of them have had to go through detox and rehab themselves. Are they responsible to be aware if someone is coming into their places of business with their relatives and helpers to get drugs. Now most states are "on line" and can in a couple of minutes run a name and date of birth on someone to see if there is any fraud and turn it over to the narcotics investigators, but what about before it gets to this point. People need help, they don't need drugs for every problem they have. Why aren't pharmacists dealing more in herbal, alternative therapies or at least offering them more in their stores? Certainly those things are not cheap and they could make money on them. They may even bring results which means the person would not have to keep taking drugs, ah maybe that is the answer.

What about us as a society. We oogle over these celebrities, we support their drunken brawls, and follow their every move as they go from one drug induced stupor to another, we don't hold them accountable, stop paying them the big bucks and we glamorize this life style which is mostly a sham, empty unfulfilled lives except for those who have decent family situations and stability and a realistic sense of self.

Our government doesn;'t want to stop the illegal drug trade because it is too lucrative. The biggest joke is saying WAR ON DRUGS when the CIA and others have long been involved in the drug trade and they often allow drugs into the country as long as they are pushed mostly in the black or minority communities. That is another whole story.

We put people in prison that really need drug or alcohol treatment. This mystifys me! We would not think of putting someone in prison who was clinically mentally ill and had a proper legal defense to prove the same yet we lock people up who get no treatment, no counseling and warehouse them with a bunch of other serious criminals and even sociopaths and these people are then futher damaged. We are talking about cutting mental health in state politics when we should be increasing services to the mentally ill so they can get the help they need and many of these mentally ill are dually diagnosed. We have all these conferences and the people who are working in these government jobs enjoy hotel rooms and all kinds of perks including at casinos while the needs of the needy are discussed but the realy needs are really met.

What is really involved in the spiral down to being inebriated is a loss of sense of self respect, purpose and hope. People need to know they are loved that they matter, their sense of direction, to learn how to set goals and find a new way to live. People need counseling for the trauma in their lives, they need to eat right and exercise, they need friendship. Prison is not the answer for substance abusers. When are we going to reach out and take care of each other? Some day this is going to be someone you love, you will feel the pain of frustration and the deep reality that there are really little services out there for these people except for Christian places most places charge so much money there is no one who can afford to pay it.

I highly recommend Teen Challenge, New Life for Girls, Victory Outreach to name a few places for women and men but if your loved ones are struggling with mental illness and need some medicine they will not qualify to enter these programs as they are not set up to deal with medical issues where medicine is required to stabalize someone.

There are also programs such as AA, NA and Celebrate Recovery which I hear is very successful with Christians who want the Christian approach to the 12 step program. It is so much easier if you have a sponsor or a mentor who can assist you in making your meetings, staying on course, as the scripture says, "An isolated man rages against all wise judgement." We all need each other and fighting addictions together is easier than fighting alone.

Also another key in staying sober is to serve others, not to be codependent but to truly serve mankind and those less fortunate than you are, because in giving to others you make an investment in yourself and it will come back to bless you later.

I also think we need more community shelters, residential treatment programs, and especially domestic violence shelters for woman and children. We also need job programs where companies will take on some people, train them and employ them even though there is some risk of failure at least to try.

I will talk more on this subject later.

Jackson Mississippi Divorce, Child Custody also serving Hattiesburg, Vicksburg, Meridian, Madison, Brandon, Ridgeland, Northern, Central & Gulf

Probably the most distressing thing in the Private Investigating business is to see how adults use their children as pawns on a chess board of hatred, emotional depravity and manipulate them as insignifcant pieces whose little personalities and emotions can be discarded with little remorse or regret.

I have come to believe even stronger that most children are in desperate need of both parents whenever that is possible, short of extreme neglect or abuse, children grow and are nurtured best by both parents equally. I would really like to see a complete revision of our court system so that mediators are used with the intention of preserving the rights of both parents when it is feasible. Giving just one parent primary custody or sole legal custody creates such havoc and distress for the children. There has to be a way no matter how difficult where agreements can be made that are best for the children. Parents must put aside their selfish reasonings and pride to do whatever it takes to raise their children in the most normal enviroment as possible.

When judges allow themselves to become so bias toward one sex or toward one type of parent then they have no moral compass to guide them to unbiased decisions based upon what is best for the children. I see case after case where children are deprived of good parents time, love and guidance because of inept judgements. As the investigator we truly get to see both sides. We are hired by one side but when we are done investigating the other, we have also had time to learn more about our own clients. No one is perfect and certainly all our clients are not perfect, as much as we would like to believe we are also on the side of right, they too have flaws and need support and guidance.

There is something terribly wrong with our system when a loving mother who has spent most of her time as a stay at home mom until the divorce while her husband has been philandering and leaving home after work till all hours of the night, and then deliberately seeking out employment and not bringing his family with him to an out of state job over and over so he can basically be a bachelor to suddenly find herself fighting to even have visitation with her children every other weekend, to be forced to return to work to pay child support for children who are not even wanted by the father but he seeks to destroy her so he finds illicit ways to win in court. What is wrong with this picture?

Or how about this picture? Two men serving our country are basically swindled into having sex under a ruse and a few drinks, lied to about fertility and deliberately chosen for their vulnerability and naivity, they find after a cleverly used ovulation kit selects the best time that they are now fathers, who then turn around and pay child support willingly only to find man after man raising their children while their mother plays all sorts of games to keep their children from them. Additionally courts systems are mocked while these children are deprived of their decent good fathers and made to call different men daddy in their very tender years all because a woman is too lazy to work and wants a steady stream of support from men. How can this woman believe that she will not pay in the Karma sense or in the sense of reaping what she has sown? Her children unfortunately will pay the higher price while they try to sort out who their daddy is and how many more men will stand in, will the real daddys ever be able to take their rightful places before it is too late for these children?

Or what about this one, Grandma finds out that the ex son in law is watching porn in front of his small little boy and doing inappropriate things in front of the child. She takes the child to the counselor and as a result is forbidden to see her own grandchild after the pervert wins custody. This is a wonderful grandma who paid for private schooling and knows that the perverted father only wants the child to make the wife come back. I shudder to think if we will have a serial sex offender in a few years after years of being subjected to this filthy treatment of women in his fathers house.

Courts use guardian ad litums here in Mississippi and one has to wonder what they are thinking when they do not do a proper investigation of the facts. One situation comes to mind. This attorney states in a report that the one parent drove the children in very severely inclement weather but never bothered to check her facts with the weather history which would have shown her that the other parent was lying, which then would have had the other parent put in a proper light. Another situation has a grand parent keeping a diary from the day her grandchildren were born and all the entries are against her in law, odd that this person would have foreseen years before the need for a diary, you think a guardian ad litum would have questioned the validity of such a well constructed instrument. There ought to be some consequences for these lawyers if they do not investigate statements made by each party that they intend to put as facts in their reports.

How can a judge order a parent to have a psych evaluation for herself and her child and nothing is happening for over a year and this parent is not held in contempt. Our system is broken. Judges are biased and have way too much power in the decisions regarding children because too many children are continuing to be damaged. There needs to be more accountability in the court system. If the appeals courts see damaging evidence of inproprieties against judges they need to overturn those decisions and if judges will not follow the law and do the right thing by children they should be de benched and possibly disbarred.

50% of marriages end in divorce, and many of those involve children. We are in an epidemic crisis mode and emergency status. Who will stand for the children if we as Private Investigators don't?